Wednesday, July 17, 2019

Double Digits

In our house, reaching your first double digit birthday is a milestone that comes with particular traditions.  Namely--adventure.  The tenth birthday is the year of the big hike.  John plans a hike of at least 10 miles to some spectacular location and he takes the birthday child plus a sibling, usually the one who last hiked, to embark upon a walking adventure.  John will scout out local flora and fauna for them to learn and identify along the way so that the kids learn a bit about their environment.  Backpacks are stocked, clothing is carefully picked for rugged comfort, and the group wakes up early to slay the day.

Our double-digit celebrant this year was Sonja and her hike destination was to view waterfalls.  The day was hot and humid and the bugs were just as much of a concern as the sun.  With neck coolers tied on, the troop headed out and tackled their hike like pros!  They were less agitated by bugs than they expected, just as sweat sopping wet at they thought they would be, but somewhat less awed than anticipated by the waterfalls they trekked so far to see.  The year has been a bit dry so the falls reflected that, however the canyon was still spectacular, so the hike was not a bust. 












Once home, hydrated, and cleaned up, we further celebrated Sonja with cake, gifts, and a relaxing viewing of one of her favorite movies--Soul Surfer.  Things were a bit off because Jozsef had to eat cake and run (We flipped dinner and cake so that Jozsef wouldn't miss out.  Besides, what kid truly minds eating dessert first?) and Nikolas was at SLU (there will be a separate post for that adventure) but we made sure that Sonja felt celebrated. 
One thing that helped with the "off" feeling of missing brothers was the other tradition that turning ten brings in our household.  This milestone also includes some equipment--=namely a pocket knife.  Sonja's anticipation over this gift had been brewing for days so she was thrilled to finally get her hands on her own knife.  The fact that said knife was blue just thrilled her even more. 
In addition, we made it a point to stop by the birthday booth at church where they whooped and hollered and threw glitter all over her before they placed a birthday hat on her head and a small gift in her hand.  She was feeling pretty special.  :-)

Though this birthday always tires out the trekkers, they always appreciate the adventure and the memories they make.  Welcome to double digits girl!  We love you! <3 p="">

Saturday, July 13, 2019

Kinda On Hold

As I said in the last post, Jozsef left for Mission Camp an 18 year old but returned home a 19 year old.  His birthday was actually the day the guys returned from camp.  The leaders and campers did sing to him and mark the day, so that was really nice because it didn't go unnoticed.  The family plan for his birthday was to have cake and gifts and talk about camp that night and the next day, he would join John and Nikolas on an excursion.  However, as you may remember, Jozsef returned home from camp exhausted and ill.  Needless to say, our plans changed. 
We did have cake and gifts before Jozsef went to bed, but there was no excursion the next day.  As a matter of fact, due to his illness and the work schedules of the guys, the birthday trip has yet to happen.  We are expecting them to go out before the end of the month, so watch for the post.  We don't want to just let this birthday silently slip by.  :-) 

We love you Jozsef!  Welcome to 19!

Tuesday, July 9, 2019

Mission Camp

Summer time and camp time are pretty synonymous.  This year, we had three boys attend summer camp.  Jozsef no longer qualifies to attend as a camper as he has aged out, but he did qualify to go as a counselor, which he was more than happy to accommodate.  For Connor, this was the first year that he was old enough to attend, which he was pretty excited about.  And for Nikolas, this camp experience was an unplanned gift.  You see, Nikolas was expecting to sit this session out since the plan for him was to attend camp in July, however, when there were last minute spaces available, the  leaders asked if he was able to attend on scholarship--an opportunity Nikolas quickly and gratefully accepted. 
All three boys packed up and traveled to Mission Camp--a time of community service and fun while leaning into a deeper personal relationship with Christ.  Jozsef was a co-leader for a cabin of boys (actually, they stayed on a college campus, so there was a suite of boys for Jozsef to concern himself over).  This group of boys also comprised his small group--a bible study group that he was to lead at various times of study and especially after a speaker taught for greater digestion of the new information.  Jozsef loves teaching the bible so this was great for him.   He was also in charge of helping to monitor their behavior during group times and in the dorms.  The boys took well to him and his energy, but even still, they pretty much wore him out over the course of the week--especially after the last night when they declared an all-nighter.  Jozsef entertained them, and them entertained illness for the next two weeks as he was spent from the energy output of study, games, worship, service, and chaperoning. 
Nikolas had a blast.  He hung out with some guys he already knew from youth group and also made it a point to circulate through the attendees so that he could get to know new people.  He studied hard, served well, and played hard too.  He saw his brothers at camp--in passing--which was odd and nice at the same time.  None of them were in the same groups or on the same buses so each of them had their own camp experiences, which I think was great.  Both Jozsef and Nikolas had the same service job--organizing an after school care facility--kind of like a YMCA--but the place was so big that they were stationed in different sections and never really worked together.  Nikolas' group of guys hit it off so well, that upon arrival home, they formed a weekly bible study so that they could continue to fellowship together.  So far, so good with their commitment and it's been wonderful to see Nikolas really take an interest in stepping out and making something for himself, apart from Jozsef.
Connor had a great first camp experience.  The fact that camp was at a beautiful college campus really helped the comfort factor with nice rooms, good beds, and great food.  The service Connor signed up for was on the farm.  Connor loves to work with plants so he had no problem helping to harvest a crop of garlic.  The guys in his group were friendly, one of them he actually was hoping to have in his group so the fellowship was extra sweet.  It was great for Connor to have brothers on board for when he ran into snags (like losing his luggage keys--no worries, we gave Nikolas an extra, just in case) but to still have enough space from them so that he felt like he was having his own camp time. 


 All three boys came home tired, but super excited.  All of them said they'd go back again--for sure.  All of them returned with friendships deeper than what they left with.  All of them came back with a little bit more knowledge of the bible and God.  All-in-all, I'd say it was a super week at camp, even though Jozsef turned up sick. 
So here's to summer and the opportunities it affords us all for fun and growth! :-)