Friday, December 31, 2021

From Our House to Yours--Christmas Greetings

 

Dear Friends and Family,

Greetings to you this blessed holiday season! I pray you are well and that the counting of your blessings in November has laid the ground for increased joy in December while we celebrate the birth of Christ our Savior. This wonderful season gives us a much-needed time of pause that enables us to reflect on all that has happened over the year. In those reflections, it’s interesting to see what weighs heaviest for us—the trying times, or the good of the times. We all have both every year. It’s easy to get weighed down by the things of this world and the incredibly unstable times we currently live in--but take heart! Though life in this world is a topsy turvy ride, the one constant that matters most is still very present and ever true. Jesus is the same yesterday and today and forever—Hebrews 13:8.   Counted blessing #1—His mercies are new every morning!

Though employment has changed much in recent times, we are thankful that the men of the house still have their jobs and are doing well in them. Kellogg continues to be the employer who stretches and grows John’s abilities as they wrestle with company expansion during the supply and demand issues of our current time. John is eyeball deep in numbers all day long and is the numerical puzzle master as the Forecast & Sales Analyst for the company. Chick Fil A continues to stretch and grow both Jozsef and Nikolas as they learn to best flux with the daily changes of employee shortages during high customer demand. Both boys have done incredibly well and have been blessed with leadership positions. Despite the growing pains, we still attest to them having the best location and team to work with. While Jozsef is continuing to work towards his seminary degree, Nikolas is taking a gap year this school season to better lay the education and career path before him. Blessing #2--Employment

The school setting and lifestyle may have changed for countless students this year, but our students are thankful to press on in the security of a homeschool routine many years in the making. Connor, now in high school, is most enjoying science and good literature. Sonja, now in junior high, is appreciating her step up in social circles but is still grappling with the higher demand of scholastics in this tier. Riley, a sixth grader, is kind of feeling like he’s floating in middle ground—he’s finishing elementary school this year but he’s on hold for all the “cool” things he’ll be able to participate in during junior high.  However, he’s doing quite well in school and is enjoying reading much more and it’s been great to see him grasp bigger concepts across the board which allows for us to dive deeper into conversations and concepts, and that’s exciting. Hannah, a fourth grader, is blossoming at her own rate which is not surprising and completely historic for her. 😊  We plug along and meet her where she is. For as challenging as it can be, there is great reward in watching her hit a new marker with success. She is absolutely making progress, and for that we are thankful. Blessing #3—Home Education

Hudson and Charlotte have been with us a year now. They are healthy, happy, and a great addition to the household. Hudson is a gentle soul who loves close proximity, exploring the scents of the outside world, and playtime. Charlotte is our watch dog. She alerts us of all sights and sounds that are not of the normal routine. She’s high energy and loves to run and play. They get along very well and can play together for hours at a time—oh the puppy days! 😊 We often reflect on how Hudson and Charlotte came to us, and their unexpected story still leaves us in awe and gratitude for their placement here. Blessing #4—Animal Companions

As for me, I’m predictably in the middle of the mix.  I am wearing several hats daily while trying to impart the how-to knowledge of tasks, tradition, good character, and strong faith onto the up-and-comings of the household. It’s truly a never-ending job that causes me my own growing pains, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything and is only truly carried out by the grace of God. These are my people and I love them dearly. Blessing #5--Family

Who knows, but God, what the next year holds? And who better than God to know it and hold it all? Come what may, I pray hope is greater than fear for us all, as we are called to live not in a spirit of fear but rather to live as courageous.  And courageous we should be as we walk in the way and security of the Lord. The Lord is the one who goes ahead of you; He will be with you. He will not fail or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed--Deuteronomy 31:8.  Now, if you are reading this and cannot relate to the security of living in Christ, I’d be remiss to pass up this moment and not be clear that Jesus came for sinners (we’re all sinners) and He sacrificed himself, in love, that all who believe may live beyond this life, in heaven rather than spending eternity in hell.  The bible is clear, that if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved; for with the heart a person believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation—Romans 10: 9-10 (emphasis mine). So, there it is—you now have your personal “how-to” in salvation. This is your eternity and He’s invested in it. He made a way, you must act on it, and I pray you do. Blessing #6--Salvation

I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened, so that you will know what is the hope of His calling, what are the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints, and what is the surpassing greatness of His power toward us who believe—Ephesians 1:18-19. Peace be with you.

Merry Christmas from the Bartoks

John, Gina, Jozsef, Nikolas, Connor, Sonja, Riley, and Hannah



Christmas

 We had great expectations for Christmas but illness overshadowed our weekend.  On Christmas Eve, our church was having a candlelight service that we were all excited to attend.  Jozsef was to read scripture and Hannah and Riley were supposed to sing on stage.  On Christmas Eve we ended up doing a divide and conquer.  I stayed home with the other two who were sick--Nikolas and Riley, while John took the others to candlelight service. We were bummed that the church didn't stream the service, so we had to rely on reports from attendants upon their return.  It was a lovely service and Hannah and Jozsef both did well on stage.  



When they returned home, we had our traditional saran wrap game and opened our one gift before turning in for the night.  



Sadly, Christmas Day brought no relief from illness.  As a matter of fact, John was added to the ranks of the ill.  We took our time opening gifts and enjoying conversation along the way.  

The carolers

Riley made this Lego tree--I love the details he puts into his work

This is the toy maker section

We had great food lined up for the day but no one ate much.  Still, all things considered, we had a good day.  Besides, ill or not, Christmas is all about honoring our Savior. However we thought Christmas was supposed to go, we are thankful that we had the time and opportunity to spend the day together.  

Merry Christmas and Happy Birthday Jesus! 




December Fun

This holiday season has been a bit set apart for us.  We've been affected by illness for the entire month of December to some extent.  Most, not all, of us have been ill, but me specifically.  I've been ill, off and on, all month long.  Sadly, this meant that we missed out on many of the activities that we had hoped to enjoy.  However, we did manage to squeeze some fun in.  

The kids enjoyed baking cookies and making some of the treats we have begun to make annually like fruitcake, cookies, and rumballs.  


Cookie making with Nikolas is becoming a cherished time







They're getting good at making rumballs

We also managed to make an evening out to ice skate.  Nikolas and I stayed off the ice but the rest of the crew all ventured out.  


Hannah began with an ice assistant, but quickly ditched it to free skate.  John did well on the ice with his ankle, which was wonderful to see as the ice is like second nature to him.  He did experience discomfort, but he toughed it out for a bit just to enjoy the ice.  











Everyone tuckered out in just short of two hours, which seemed to fly by. 





We closed out the night with cups of hot cocoa and candy canes.  What a great night of holiday fun! 

Wednesday, December 1, 2021

Thanksgiving Weekend

 

Thanksgiving is a day of giving thanks for your many blessings.  We may not have had the blessings of extended family or travel in our weekend, but it was super full and we very much enjoyed it.  

On Thanksgiving proper, we enjoyed food, family, friends, and fun.  There was the Macy's parade, the dog show, games, and drinks.  We hosted a friend of the boys' and that just added to our enjoyment.  

We counted our blessings all month long




They made Great Grandma Pree's Pecan Tarts--so yummy!


Riley made a Lego feast


We like to be sure that Thanksgiving is fully celebrated *before* Christmas comes on the scene

This year was the earliest we've ever gotten our Christmas tree--the day after Thanksgiving!  Circumstances were just right so we jumped at the opportunity to head out to the tree farm.  It was a beautiful afternoon and it was great to set up Christmas in our house.  

Hot cocoa on a cool day at the tree farm was delightful


We don't usually visit Santa, but the opportunity was prime so we took it 


Riley put the star on the tree this year



Saturday we attended a Christmas kick off festival.  It was bigger than we anticipated so we ended up spending all day there--it was great!  The boys met up with friends and extended their fun with a game night.  

It's getting harder and harder to get the older boys in pictures these days.  There are more times of divide and conquer than there are togetherness--as is to be expected as they create their own lives.  So, no pictures of them this day, though we did share part of it with them.


Just as we were going to get truck food, Sonja spotted a wonderful stand selling charcuterie boards in a box--a much better buy! 



Sunday we had lunch with another large family from church.  No pictures were taken, but we did put more opportunities on the calendar for us to meet up--such a fun group.  

Blessings abounded for sure--good weather, good company, good food, good fun, good rest--who could ask for more?  A blessed weekend for sure!